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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 00:28

How does one succeed in life?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What can I do to deal with disrespectful children?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

How do you perform a lap dance for your boyfriend or husband?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Why do I want to suck cock, after smoking methamphetamine?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why can't they repair the damage caused by Elon Musk renaming Twitter to X?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Have you ever had a bad gut feeling about someone and it was right?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Ask yourself:

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Who is someone that inspires you?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

What is the scariest thing that ever happened in your life?

Procrastinates a lot.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Can a mother forget her child after she puts him or her up for adoption?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

Who is the dumbest law enforcement officer you have ever encountered?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What I need from you?

If you could go back and rewrite the Legend of Korra, what would you change, and why?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Making more friends is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

That's it for today.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.